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20111202 @ Friday, December 02, 2011

Lately i have been thinking. Thinking about uni life, how its gonna end really soon. Will i miss uni life,the friends,the work stress and everything.

I gave serious thoughts into it. And apparently, i managed to figure it all out.

When i entered uni 2 years ago, i swore that i will not repeat my mistakes like what happened in poly. All the friends and all the mess. Its rather tiring to have groups of friends. Polytechnic was good only for the final year, where i got rather close to my fyp mates. yes, i have collisions with everyone but we all came with a common goal ie to complete our fyp.

So i made a simply discrete vow when uni came. i told myself not to make many friends cuz there is really no need for social circles esp cuz im back to doing conventional studying. All i needed were the books and notes to keep me companied. well of course i met several people along the way...

But i have no intention to keep them. Well, maybe only 1.

I sound like a honest bitch now. but yea people come and go. only true friends stay. friends that i have incessantly maintained contacts with albeit our very busy schedules. we dont need to meet up very often,but a simple convo on text is healthy. since i firmly believe in only true friends, i have never labelled anyone as my "best friend" for a reason.

Cuz if i did, the friend who i dubbed as my BEST friend may have other best friends...and it might not be me. Of course i will be damn upset. so to prevent sadness, i have never had best friends since i was in primary school all the way up to where in life i am now.

so back to my long story of uni life, i reckon all the people whom i have had met along the way are just hi-bye friends. i dont reckon i will say hi and i guess i will ignore them 5 years from now when i chance upon them in the streets,restaurant,maternity labor or whatever. lol

Other than shuhui(my study buddy), i dont perceive any of my transitional friends to be in contact with me once i graduate. All in all, for 3 years, i have remained focussed. And im proud of myself.

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